The Stag of the New Millennium

>different activities, partly encouraged by
The new millennium stag is a very different breedcommercial factors as an events industry has
from the traditional caricature. Due to a mix ofsprung up to support the growth of stag events.
increased affluence, a trend of marrying later andGenerally stag weekends revolve around activities
a more relaxed attitude to unmarriedworth their weight in masculinity such as
co-habitation, the stag do has taken on a newpaintballing, blindfolded 4x4 driving, shooting and
significance.white water rafting. However, for the more
Oddly, as divorce rates rise, the final stepsophisticated stag, there are often more sedate
towards marriage feels to today’sactivities such as life drawing and wine tasting to
prospective brides and grooms to be a muchusher in the new, responsible chapter of their life.
greater step than it used to be, as traditionallyIt’s interesting to see how the expansion
couples needed to get married in order to liveof stag activities has accompanied a change in
together. Now, as couples tend to live togetherattitude to marriage, and to consider how
first, sometimes for years, marriage seems like amarriage is simultaneously less important and
conceptually greater leap.more important than it used to be. Once
As such stag dos have also taken on a greatercommitted, divorce is more likely than ever,
significance as the final blow out of youngalthough these statistics could perhaps be slightly
irresponsibility and a marker for the inexorableskewed by increasing life expectancy, but the
decline into middle aged responsibility. When this isprevailing attitude to marriage amongst
combined with a greater affluence generally andtoday’s young people seems to reflect an
couples possessing more readily available cash asincreased seriousness to the undertaking
they are marrying later, the stag do has grown inbeforehand.
size to become stag weekends.Stag weekends have not ballooned simply
As stags now celebrate their impending nuptialsbecause people are richer, although this has
over a number of days, they have discoveredenabled it, the cultural change that accompanies
that they can’t maintain such a protractedthe whole arena of stags and grooms is perhaps
event fuelled by alcohol and strippers alone. Asmore to do with the change.
such stag weekends take in a cornucopia of